A Love Story {Part 3}

If you didn't get a chance to read parts 1 and 2, you can go back and do that now. {Part 1; Part 2}

We didn't begin dating right away.  In fact, under the leadership of my “special friend”, we took things very slowly at first.

After our first day of classes, we both headed toward the cafeteria for lunch.  I didn't know if we were going to sit together or not, but we had just gotten out of a class and had walked to the cafeteria together, so we were next to each other in line.  After we got our food, I didn't really know what I was supposed to do.  Was he expecting me to sit with him or not?

He was standing there looking for a place to sit, so I just stood next to him and waited.  He finally said, “I don't want to sit together until I've had a chance to talk to your dad.”

“Um.  Yeah.  Sure.  Okay.”  I mumbled awkwardly as I found a place to sit by myself.

Thankfully he didn't wait too long before he got around to asking my dad if it would be okay for us to eat meals together and spend a few minutes talking alone every day.

Over the next semester, most of our communication was spent over a quick meal and through tons and tons of little notes.  He was carrying  a full load of classes and working a full-time 3rd shift job.  He didn't have much time left for me, but somehow he made time to write me notes all the time and leave little prizes in my mailbox (chocolates, mostly – he was a smart fellow!)

In spite of the fact that we were “taking it slow”, there were a couple not-so-subtle hints that there was a whole lot more to it than that.

Like the time I wrote him a silly note for fun that said “I like you.  Do you like me?  Check yes or no.”  He checked “no”, handed it back, and said “Interpret that how you may.”  Hmm….

Or the time he checked my box before I did, found an informational survey in there and filled it out for me.  On the space marked “Anniversary”, he filled in Summer ?????.    Hmmm again…

I didn't remember this, but in looking through our box of notes and letters, it was pretty obvious that by Christmas break (about 4 months) we had some pet names for each other.  (None of your business what they were!)

Our box of notes and letters

When Christmas break came, it seemed like it would last forever, even though it was only a few weeks.  I bought a couple cards to send him, but my Dad saw them and nixed them.  I guess they were a little too mushy.  🙂

We did manage to fit in a few phone calls over the break.

One phone call in particular was extremely memorable…

To be continued…

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2. If 97 ebooks is too overwhelming to you, you can order any of the individual ebooks that catch your eye.

3. Make friends with Jessica and see if she'll let you borrow hers. 🙂

I don't usually spend $29.97 just because something is a good deal, but this is one splurge I did make, and it has been so worth it.

• I wanted to get some sourdough starter, and I got it as one of the free bonuses.
• I wanted some natural toothpaste, and I needed to order more sea salt, and I also got those as free bonuses.
• I wanted a natural wellness formula for when my kids get coughs and colds, and I got one…you guessed it…as a free bonus.
• I've been wanting to grow my own cooking herbs, and I got a free kit…yes…as a free bonus.
• I have already put several of the books on my Kindle, and everything I have read so far has been just excellent!  There are only a handful of books in which I wasn't interested (cloth diapering?   not my thing).  But almost every single one that I have looked through so far seems like it has been written just for me.  (Rough time staying organized and focused on the housework?  My hand is raised.  Need fashion advice that is practical for a woman with an ever-changing body shape, while not being focused on being materialistic with our clothes?  Awesome.  I never knew such a book existed, but it does.  I could go on, but I'll spare you.)

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A Love Story {Part 2}

If you didn't get a chance to read part 1, you can read it here.

As we walked, I nervously looked this way and that to see if I could catch a glimpse of him somewhere.  Finally we rounded a corner and headed down the street where the guys dorms were located.  I saw a car I didn't recognize full of stuff, and I could see someone pulling out suitcases and boxes.

My breath caught in my throat as I realized it was him!

We continued walking, my parents probably amused at my attempts to be nonchalant on this walk in which I just “happened” to be participating.

As we got closer to him, my brain started to feel paralyzed.  We finally came up beside his car, and my parents greeted him and asked him a couple questions about his summer.  I hung back behind them, looking like a shy schoolgirl, and I didn't say a word.  I might have mumbled a quiet “hello”, but I can't remember for sure.  He didn't say much more than that to me either.

As we finished our walk, I was excited and nervous at the same time.  Dozens of thoughts were swirling through my mind, and I carried on mental conversations with myself.

“He hardly even spoke to me.”

“Well, you weren't exactly acting like you wanted to talk.”

“Well, I didn't know what to say, and besides my parents were standing right there.  Besides, maybe he doesn't even like me anymore.”

“Well, he sure was cordial enough to your parents.  And he smiled at you.”

“Oh!  That smile!  Yes!  He smiled at me!”

Back at home, I continued my thoughts.  What was he thinking?  What would this year be like between us?

I didn't have to wait long to find out.  The next day was Wednesday, which meant we had church that night.

I came in with my parents and we sat in our usual spot.  He came in and sat right behind us.  I had enough courage that time to turn around and speak to him, although I can't remember a lick of what either one of us said.

During the sermon, I have no idea now what the pastor was preaching about, but for some reason he mentioned a verse that was talking about dove's eyes.  Then he said, “I saw some people here tonight that were making dove's eyes at each other.”

When he said that, I glanced over my shoulder, and there it was.  That smile.  And dove's eyes.

He still liked me.

This was going to be a great year.

To be continued…

If you're laughing hysterically right now, just feel honored that I'm letting you hear some of my private thoughts.  Admit it, if we could have read your thoughts as a young girl in love, it would probably be just as funny!

Annnd…in case I haven't reminded you often enough, the Ultimate Homemaking Ebook Bundle is still available through Saturday.  Whether your love story is just beginning or you've been married for years, there are some fabulous resources for keeping the romance alive!  At 31 cents per book with an additional $140 worth of free bonus products, you can't beat that!

See all the included books and bonus freebies here.

A Love Story

Since my husband and I celebrate our anniversary this month, I will be focusing on topics regarding marriage.  I thought the best way to start would be to share our love story…

“You really shouldn't be talking to people like that,” I remarked as I breezed past the park bench.

I was talking to a staff member's little boy at the Bible college I attended.  It was the beginning of the school year, and there was this {extremely cute} freshman guy sitting on a bench talking to this little boy.

Saying that to the boy was my (very immature) way of saying to this new guy, “Well, hi there, handsome!  If you haven't noticed me…well…please notice me.”

He did.

(He tells me now that he noticed me, but could tell that I had a little maturing to do, so he was not going to pursue any relationship until he knew I was ready.)

Since we ended up with a very similar class schedule, we had plenty of informal opportunities to get to know one another as friends.

I continued my immature antics before every class by ensuring that there was always magically a seat that just happened to be empty when he walked into the room – and it was always right beside me.  Amazing how he never caught on to that. 😉 (Yeah, right.)

As the school year went on we realized more and more how attracted we were to one another.  We got to know one another in group settings and just as friends – chatting before and after classes, eating lunch together with a group of friends, going to college activities within the same group of friends, etc.

My {then future} husband (wise man that he was) did not pursue any further relationship at all that year other than just being friends.  He wanted to see how we felt during the summer when we parted ways and did not have any contact with one another.

However, our first “date” was on the last night of school.  We went out to Dairy Queen with some of our friends, and didn't stay nearly as long as I would have liked.  He was paranoid that he would keep me out too late and get on my dad's bad side.  When we got back from Dairy Queen, we said goodbyes and parted ways for the entire summer.

Us at a banquet at the end of the school year

That was hard for me, but good at the same time.

I was already planning on marrying the guy, and I started getting into the habit of squeezing the toothpaste tube from the bottom because I thought he seemed like the type of person to do that.  After we got married we both squeezed the toothpaste tube from the bottom, but he told me that he had trained himself to do it that first summer we were apart because he thought I seemed like the type of person to do that! (Guess he was already planning on marrying me too!)

After the summer was over, I stalked the college campus on the day I knew he was supposed to come back.  I waited around as long as I could without looking like a complete dork, and finally went home without seeing him return.  Later that evening my parents decided to go take a walk around the college campus (we lived on a main road and there was no good place at home to walk).  I suddenly  became extremely interested in my cardiovascular health!

Would I see him?  Would he still be interested in me?  I hadn't seen him or had any communication with him for the entire summer, and these were the questions I was nervously asking myself as I put on my exercise  cutest clothes and threw my hair in a ponytail meticulously did my hair and makeup.

To be continued…

You can read the rest of the story here:

A Few of My Favorite Things (Plus a Giveaway!)

I know I'm talking a lot about this Ultimate Homemaking Ebook Bundle, but that's because I'm just so excited about it!

I know that 97 ebooks may seem a little overwhelming to some of you, but when you take a minute to look at the smaller picture, you can focus on the materials that most interest you and leave the rest on your virtual bookshelf for later.

 Update:  Although the bundle sale is no longer available, you can still purchase any of the individual ebooks by clicking on the links in the post.

Disclosure: This post contains affiliate links.  If you make a purchase through the links on this page I will earn a small commission.  Thank you for supporting this site!

Here are some of my personal favorites:

Tell Your Time by Amy @ Blogging with Amy
This is regularly $2.99 and worth every penny!  This book helped me incredibly with time management!  It just made sense!

K4 Curriculum by Erica @ Confessions of a Homeschooler – normally $15.00.  I used this with my little ones and loved it!  It contains everything you need for teaching a little one how to write, cut, begin to read, recognize colors and shapes, etc. – all from a Christian perspective!

42 Days to Fit by Brandy @ The Marathon Mom, Emma @ Real Fit Moms and Stacy @ A Delightful Home  This is normally $4.99.  I have personally done this program and found it realistic for a mom like me, yet challenging at the same time.

You Can Do This! The First Five Steps to a Real Food Kitchen by Laura @ Heavenly Homemakers Normally $5.00.  Laura's blog was the very first blog I started reading when I started trying to make healthier choices in my kitchen, and I couldn't have chosen a better blog to read!  She doesn't confuse you, make you feel guilty for what you do or don't eat, or overwhelm you.  She is all about simple, wholesome meals that taste good – no complicated techniques or ingredients – just good food!  I know you will not be disappointed with this ecourse!

Logical Decisions

All right, think about this for a minute.  If you were to buy just these 4 resources (which I can personally assure you are worth every penny of their regular price!), you would have already spent your $29.97.  There is no logical reason whatsoever not to receive the remaining 93 ebooks plus the $140 in free bonus products, is there?  Honestly, I can't even begin to mention the books I haven't read yet, but am so excited to now own!  It's like walking into a bookstore with the latest releases and finding a big sign that said they were on sale for 31 cents each!  You better believe I'd be buying every single book that was on my wish list, even if I did spend 30 bucks!

View the entire list of included books here.

But I don't have an ereader!

All right, here's what happens when you order your ebook bundle.  After you make your payment you are directed to a page with a download link.  You download the books directly onto your computer (or flash drive, CD, etc.)  You can open them up and read them on your computer or print what you want to print.  If you have an ereader (or get one later) you can simply transfer them to your device and read them on there.

A giveaway!

I am giving away an ebook bundle to one of you! (Bundle only, does not include the bonuses)  If you purchase the bundle for yourself and you win the giveaway, you can choose someone to whom you'd like to gift it!  It's like Buy One Get One Free!

Plus…there is a good possibility that I will give away a second bundle!  That will depend on how good of a job you do sharing this deal with your friends.  We have to get the word out because after Saturday at 4pm EST, this opportunity will no longer exist!

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15 Minute Tasks for the Week

I know I've been rather sporadic with posting these weekly tasks, mainly because I've been living in survival mode .   So you know if I post a challenge, I must be having a decent day and feeling ambitious.  (That doesn't necessarily mean I'll actually get this stuff done, but I'm at least thinking about it!)

I'd like to work in the laundry room this week, mainly because mine's not too bad and it won't take too much work.

Monday

Remove anything from the room that does not belong there and put it in the correct place.  This includes a quick declutter of shelves/cabinets.

Tuesday

Clean the washing machine.  Here is a good way to clean a top-loading washing machine and one for a front-loading machine.  (Yes, yes.  I know promoting using bleach on a blog that talks about natural living is a no-no, but there are certain things which I just don't seem to be able to remove the scum and grime off without bleach.  If you are an expert and can recommend a natural way which is just as effective, please feel free to fire away in the comments!)

Wednesday

Clean the dryer.  Wipe down the outside and inside.  Clean the dryer ducts.  (Yikes!  I don't think I've ever done this!)

Thursday

Vacuum thoroughly, empty trash, clean cobwebs out of corners.

Friday

Wash windows and curtains if you have them.  Wipe down lightswitches, doorknobs, etc.

Saturday

Make sure laundry items are stocked and organized –  Hangers, laundry baskets detergents (maybe now would be a good time to try my homemade laundry detergent), stain removers, etc.

Don't forget that through Saturday, May 4, 2013, you can get an ebook bundle of valuable homemaking ebooks for 95% off!  Click here for details.

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